When Words Become Weapons

“Answer me when I call, O God of my righteousness! You have relieved me in my distress; be gracious to me and hear my prayer. O sons of men, how long will my honor become a reproach? How long will you love what is worthless and aim at deception? But know that the LORD has set apart the godly man for Himself; the LORD hears when I call to Him.” (Psalm 4:1-3). Many of the psalms are written as an appeal to God for help in a difficult situation in life. This psalm of David is no exception. The threat here seems to be more verbal than physical. David’s opponents were slandering him. What can be done when words become weapons used against you?

First, “Tremble, and do not sin…” (4:4a). This part of the psalm is quoted by Paul in Ephesians 4:26 as he encourages Christians not to let their anger get out of control. David is reminding himself not to give into the temptation to lash out at his slanderers. Revenge is best left to God.

Second, “...meditate in your heart upon your bed, and be still” (4:4b). Don’t lose sleep over the worthless words of the wicked. Instead, think deeply on the good words of God and others who support you. Those words provide calm instead of agitation.

Third, “Offer the sacrifices of righteousness…” (4:5a). Continue to focus on honoring and serving God instead of being distracted by the words and actions of others. 

And fourth, “...and trust in the LORD.” (4:5b). Never forget to trust God. Placing your trust in anyone or anything else, like the approval of others, is doomed to failure.

Remembering these things will help to give you peace in face of the slander and reproach of others. When words become weapons, you don’t have to respond in kind. “In peace I will both lie down and sleep, for You alone, O LORD, make me to dwell in safety” (4:8).  Now, get some sleep!

God loves you!

Mike