Cody Bret shares the best kept secret to a long lasting relationship: “When I was a child my grandma spent countless hours in the kitchen cooking food that was fit for kings. But one day she was taking clothes off the close line outside and forgot about the pie in the oven and unfortunately didn't have the ingredients to bake another, so she took the pie out and let it cool, and set a big piece of pie in front of my grandpa. Out of curiosity I stuck around to see what my grandpa would say. But to my astonishment he ate every morsel of the piece of pie and asked me how school was treating me. Then I heard my Grandma apologize to him for the way the pie turned out. Till this day, I'll never forget his response. "Honey, this is one of the best pies I've ever had." Later, I asked my Grandpa if that was the truth. He said "Come here my boy" as he put his arm on my shoulder and said, “Your grandma had a long day and after 43 years together I know when she's tired. I couldn’t care less about the pie being burnt, but if I had chosen to say something negative about the pie it could have hurt her feelings." We all make mistakes, but we shouldn't focus on those mistakes, rather support those whom we truly love.”
The temptation, of course, is to react negatively when things don’t go our way or when others make mistakes that affect us. When we feel the urge to respond in negative ways, remember how God wants us to react. “So, as those who have been chosen of God, holy and beloved, put on a heart of compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience; bearing with one another, and forgiving each other, whoever has a complaint against anyone; just as the Lord forgave you, so also should you” (Colossians 3:12–13).
Relationships are more important than pies. Remember that next time someone burns one.
God loves you!
Mike